It all started on a Thursday night at Deadwood Tavern…
We met like all true millennials—searching for love in a dating app. We both advertised travel stories, hopes for the future, and photos of our cats. We both agreed that the next best step was meeting at Iowa City’s finest establishment, Deadwood. We were both tired and unsure, but things clicked together, like a key to its lock.
Emily’s Side
I was out on a school night, going to see some guy I met on a dating app at one of the dingiest bars in Iowa City. He was there first, and the second I saw him, I thought, “Oh shit. He’s cute.”
He was more than just cute though—a witty, caring person who was truly interested in our conversation. Even with so much unknown, everything felt aligned in that moment.
Cory’s Story
Driving back from a night shift at Burlington’s ER, I got a notification from Emily, and I suggested we meet at Deadwood to get to know each other. One month in, and I asked her to pick me up from O’Hare, and we took our first trip away from home.
As soon as we got home, she asked me to put together an IKEA dresser, and we passed our first true relationship test. But I knew she was someone special before that day — open to adventure, compassionate and understanding, an independent woman with a thousand stories to share.
… and the rest is history
In the summer of 2024, we took a trip to the Republic of Georgia, Cory’s number one bucket-list trip. Cory planned a horseback ride into the mountains, and Emily was ready for the views. However, at the end of the mountain pass, Cory pointed to a tower in the distance and said 'Let’s hike up there.” Emily protested, replying with “Absolutely not.”
Begrudgingly, she climbed a narrow goat path up the hill to the ruins of Zakagori Fortress. Emily was still huffing and puffing (Cory was too), and not yet willing to admit the view was worth the trouble. Catching his breath, Cory locked eyes with the hiding photographer, who they had met in Tbilisi just three days before. With the nod of his head, he gave Cory the all clear to start..
Finally, his carefully laid plans all came together. He pulled Emily into position, reached into his pocket, and began a speech he had been rehearsing for hours from the back of his horse. At the end of it all, with tears in her eyes, Emily said “Yes”.